3 M

1. mapan
Pria yang akan  jadi pendampingku nanti harus mapan. dia harus sudah memiliki masa depan sendiri. punya pekerjaan tetap, tidak lagi bergantung pada orang lain. bukannya matre, tapi itu demi kebaikan hidup kami nanti. aku tidak mau saat nanti punya anak atau di hari tua kami menjadi kesusahan masalah dunia. tenang saja, selama aku mampu, akupun akan berusaha membantu.


2. menerima pasangan apa adanya
ini adalah hal yang sangat penting. bila pasangan kita tidak bisa menerima kita apa adanya, akan sulit menemukan keabadian dunia. menerima pasangan apa adanya mencakup banyak hal.
a. mereka akan dapat tulus menyayangi kita apapun keadaannya.
b. tidak akan ada yang namanya pengkianatan.
c. mereka tidak akan banyak menuntut, tapi bukan berarti kita menjadi tidak berusaha untuk jadi lebih baik.
d. mereka akan setia membantuku saat aku susah, menghiburku saat aku jatuh.


3. mengenal apa agamanya dan siapa Tuhannya
orang yang mengenal apa agamanya dan siapa Tuhannya, pasti akan tahu apa yang boleh dilakukan dan apa yang tidak sepantasnya dilakukan. 
siapa yang tidak mau memiliki pasangan yang memiliki sifat yang sempurna, seperti nabi Muhammad. aku ingin pasanganku nanti mengerti betul agamanya. karena dengan begitu, mereka tidak akan melakukan hal hal yang dibenci Tuhan. kita pun akan selamat dunia akhirat.
selamat dunia karena pasangan kita tidak akan berani menganiaya kita, tidak akan mempersulit kita, tidak akan megkhianati kita, tidak akan berkata kasar pada kita dsb.  justru aku berharap, mereka malah bisa menjadi imam yang baik diriku, keluargaku dan lingkungan sekitar, aminn.
selamat akhirat karena kita telah berhasil mendapatkan pasangan yang dapat membimbing kita ke jalan yang baik.


aku sangat berharap, 5- 8 tahun lagi aku bisa mendapatkan "pria bukan cowok" seperti 3 M itu. 

you, jogja and they're still no 1

hello all. thanksgiving to God this time I was given the opportunity to write something which contains, haha (what i mean ?) It has been 3 months no more I left high school. it is definitely missed. SMA is the most beautiful period in my life. during the three-month vacation, I am trying to adapt to new situations. o yes, I have not said yes when I finally Perbanas college in Surabaya. hemmm, not candid candid I went in there. okeee, the title of this is you, jogja, they're still No. 1, why did I give that title? It was started from yesterday, suddenly I was constantly singing the song you're still one of Sania twain thr .. nah, after that I got the idea to make it so the status on facebook. It is there for someone, but a long long time, the idea was developed into you, jogja, they're still number one:)

YOU 
You here means mimmud. That is my nickname for someone who has two years and until now I like it I still like it. although I never met, rarely chat via sms, fb or whatever modern equipment.maybe because he knows I like him and he can not reciprocate, therefore he became difficult for me to approach. yahhh, although maybe he ilfil with my attitude that may be too bold for her size, but that does not make him feel like I'm missing. sometimes I dream it, and after that I must have missed. The most powerful way to treat ya think that just by looking at his picture on facebook. every feeling I'm confused, after seeing her face would instantly calm down: D

JOGJA 
Yogyakarta is a city that makes absolutely obsetion to be there. I started to really like jogja since third grade yesterday. I've wanted all along to study at UGM and lived in Yogya, but that's all I can not make it happen because parents are already banned before I tried. It makes me really heartbroken. even now, when I came back with the failure and also to see how good life my friend who is now studying at UGM, the pain returned. I thought I was too cowardly, I hate myself like that. I previously had almost desperate to take the last wave of UGM registration, but it was canceled again because I had already enrolled as a freshman Perbanas. also sorry for my parents if I have to waste money six million dollars and pay tuition again. any time to sign up too little time other campuses. I will probably be back chasing UGM in the next year, hopefully when registration opened up, I was ready and dared to tread. aminnnnn

THEY
 I mean those who are friends of my friends in high school. although we have been busy with our own affairs, but I am obtaining trying to keep in touch with them.
AYU WIDYANINGRUM who now lectures at TELKOM Bandung. 
LARAS P. now in Yogyakarta and studying at UGM ... T.T I want to ...
SAVELYA M. which is now in Unair accounting majors.
AMIRA T is also at Airlangga University in accounting. 
RANU G. attending Unibraw Malang.

hmmm, even though I've got some friends in Perbanas, but I can not forget them and also the habit of our habits in high school. I swear, I miss them. I am afraid the time and rarely saw made me lose them.

you, jogja, and them want to make me aware if you lose it's really scary. I LOVE YOU ALL: you, jogja, and them :)